tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-8873093851683468203.post6380605470166176797..comments2023-07-01T06:46:16.188-05:00Comments on The Domestic Wannabe: i hate sleepAshleyhttp://www.blogger.com/profile/14111076542551700221noreply@blogger.comBlogger7125tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-8873093851683468203.post-37752290429436175302010-06-25T17:41:59.939-05:002010-06-25T17:41:59.939-05:00Just wanted to say we're going through the exa...Just wanted to say we're going through the exact same thing (except I can't seem to ever wake up, wishing I didn't need as much sleep as I do). My daughter (who is just shy of 4 months) also likes to go to bed at 11pm and seems to have a solid night's sleep when she goes to bed late. However, we've been trying to move her bedtime up earlier. She is very restless and fussy for at least an hour and then falls asleep. But then she is wide awake during her 2am feeding and doesn't want to go back to sleep. I think it just takes some time. I've been noticing that she is slowly getting better at falling asleep on her own. We just go up and comfort her when she is fussing after we put her down. I try not to take her out of her crib - but just rub her head and she seems to be going to sleep a little faster each night. Hang in there, you're not alone!!Anonymousnoreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-8873093851683468203.post-25891387324904754812010-06-23T19:00:09.629-05:002010-06-23T19:00:09.629-05:00I started Aidan on a bedtime routine about 2-3 mom...I started Aidan on a bedtime routine about 2-3 momths of age. I believe he would take 3-4 naps a day, but he used to lay down with me, or sleep on my chest during naps. At night-time, we started our routine around 7-7:30pm. We typically gave him a bath, then feed him a bottle, then we would rock in his room. It was quiet in there, so there were minimal distractions. He would usually be in bed between 9-10pm. I know there is a lot of downtime in between there, but sometimes it was hard for him to go to sleep, so we just kept things dimmed and quiet and let him play with whatever he would play with at the time. I don't know if you use a binkie, but they are helpful too. <br /><br />As for you, I don't know what to do about that. I was such a light sleeper when Aidan was little, if he even moved, I would be wide awake. Derek and I would alternate nights on who would wake up with him. He only woke up about 1-2x/night periodically. He had almost always slept through the night for a good 8-10 hours since he was a newbie. <br /><br />Good luck with your sleep issue! Sorry I couldn't offer any more advice!Melissa Welchnoreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-8873093851683468203.post-32041952369322624292010-06-23T18:16:51.914-05:002010-06-23T18:16:51.914-05:00We're still new at this, too, so I don't h...We're still new at this, too, so I don't have any advice. :(<br />But, I just wanted to say that Ryann is beautiful!! And I love those jammies!Melissahttps://www.blogger.com/profile/00671357213169740401noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-8873093851683468203.post-71439173347908629202010-06-23T16:13:23.772-05:002010-06-23T16:13:23.772-05:00I think figuring out your own sleep is the best be...I think figuring out your own sleep is the best bet. I haven't heard many successful attempts to get a baby to sleep on any schedule other than their own!<br /><br />I feel your pain on the late to bed late to rise thing baby though. I was "that" girl at the slumber party too!<br /><br />Good luck! Can you wear ear plugs... would your hubby wake up when the baby cries? (Mine sleeps too heavily for that).Jennhttps://www.blogger.com/profile/00818408863898939889noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-8873093851683468203.post-25678966768182789042010-06-23T15:00:18.086-05:002010-06-23T15:00:18.086-05:00One thing that helps me fall back to sleep is to j...One thing that helps me fall back to sleep is to just focus on my breathing, not on my thoughts. Giving yourself something specific to focus on might help!<br /><br />Good luck. You might have a few more months before her sleep really gets regular. But, it will likely happen if she is already getting in a good routine.S. Andersonhttps://www.blogger.com/profile/15500450578518150761noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-8873093851683468203.post-11248823994957170302010-06-23T11:07:10.619-05:002010-06-23T11:07:10.619-05:00Annie also has been really consistent with a bedti...Annie also has been really consistent with a bedtime of about 8pm, since she was very very young. Now she's even moving closer to 7pm. We did start a bedtime routine (nurse, swaddle (now she has her arms out since she can roll, but we still wrap her), book, a few minutes of rocking and in the crib drowsy but awake) at 2 months and I really think that helped her to understand that it was sleep time. It is kind of tough now that it stays light out longer but we keep her room as dark as possible so she has some sense that it's "night".<br /><br />I have read an embarrassing number of books on sleep, and they are really helpful. Even if you aren't a proponent of any sleep training (which we haven't had to do - I just find the books fascinating) the books Solve Your Child's Sleep Problems by Ferber and Healthy Sleep Habits Happy Child by Weissbluth both contain a lot of good information on the science of sleep that really help to understand sleep associations, cycles, etc. I'd highly recommend checking one or both out of the library. Ferber's book gets a bad rap as only being about cry it out, but it isn't AT ALL. There is specifically a chapter on moving up bedtime that might help you. I think he recommends something like trying to move it up by 15 minutes each day until it is where you want it to be.<br /><br />Sorry I'm writing a novel here, but I also have had some of the sleep issues that you are facing for yourself... still haven't figured them out but I can relate. I wrote about it on my blog and got a lot of helpful suggestions:<br />http://erinkristine.blogspot.com/2010/05/sleep.html<br /><br />Good luck!Erinhttps://www.blogger.com/profile/17928807868790599467noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-8873093851683468203.post-19654053657793601502010-06-23T10:34:37.270-05:002010-06-23T10:34:37.270-05:00Well, Isaac is an early to bed, early to rise kind...Well, Isaac is an early to bed, early to rise kinda guy. We start his nighttime routine around 7 - bath, lotion, nurse, book, and then I lay him down. He's usually asleep by 7:30 or 8. He still wakes up numerous times a night to nurse, but we co-sleep, so that really just involves me rolling over and us both falling asleep while he eats. And then he's typically up for the day between 6:30 and 7. <br /><br />As far as moving her bedtime up a few hours...I haven't got a clue. We started Isaac on an early routine right away and it seemed to just work, so I don't have any good suggestions. I think a consistent nighttime routine is important though!Anonymousnoreply@blogger.com