embrace the camera + a good laugh

This is pretty typical these days.

come on Ryann!  I know the camera is beeping, but pretend we're doing something here ok??

I LOVE baking.  I can't help it.  I love sweets, I love the way the oven smells, and I love that Chris likes a good amount of the things I bake (lately I try and healthify stuff a lot, those treats don't always go over quite as well :o).  But I haven't just been baking.  I'm trying all sorts of recipes to try and get Ryann to eat SOMETHING other than peanut butter toast and fruit.  It isn't going so well.  But I WILL prevail!  Eventually.  For now I guess I'll pretend a little bit of brownie batter keeps her strong...

And I had to toss in this picture, and share a little story.

Sometime over the weekend when Ryann was a little fussy (ok a lot fussy) and kind of thrashing around but didn't want me to put her down she really grabbed onto my shirt and exposed the girls.  Thank God we were in our family room.  With no one else (well maybe Chris, I don't remember, but I suppose he'll live if I flashed him).  I said something to the affect of "whoa whoa!  keep the boobs covered!"

Now if you remember, Ryann has known the word boob for a while.  Not my proudest mommy moment, but that is what they are so whatever.  So I wasn't surprised that she talked about my boobs for a little while after my little outburst.

Fast forward to Tuesday.  Grammy came to visit us (hooray!!!).  I was driving us around and Grammy was in back playing hide and seek with Ryann.  Sounds strange I suppose, but Ryann loves her version of hide and seek.  She asks various questions such as "Is she... on the couch?  Is she... under the table?  Is she... in the chair?"  I'm not really sure who 'she' is.  Apparently we are looking for Ryann, but she doesn't really get the concept that she should actually be hidden out of sight for this game.  Whatever, it is really cute to hear her come up with places.

Anyway, so the car version was sounding a little something like this:  "Is she... in the trunk?  Is she... behind the seat? Is she... on the roof?"  Yes, my mom said some of those things first.  But then Ryann randomly threw out, "Is she... on the boobs?"  Of course both my mother and I burst out laughing.  She said it again, and we laughed harder.  She looked at my mom, "Grammy laughing?"  Yes Ryann.  Grammy is laughing, because you my little girl, are ridiculous :o).

Oh, and another random humorous fact?  Six people visited my blog yesterday via google, by searching the keywords 'diaper blowout'.  How do you like them stats?

a day in the life - beth anne

Well, some of you may know her better at Blair, but I'm so happy to have Beth Anne on the blog today.  I pink puffy heart her blunt writing style (I only wish I was as brave as her sometimes!), Harry is pretty stinkin' adorable, and her hubby wears a KU hat.  That pretty much stole my heart of course :).  On top of all that I have her to thank for kick starting my weight loss journey.  So pretty much, she rocks.  Enjoy a peek at her day! 

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6:00am, it's wake-up time!  The first alarm goes off & my husband gets the dog set for the morning as he has breakfast & I hop in the shower.  Since I take much longer to get ready (blech to curled hair & make-up & pencil skirts) while my husband gets to roll out of bed & throw on jeans, he's the one to get Harrison ready.  Coffee is poured while I grab my snacks & lunch, then we're out the door by 6:55am to get a head start on traffic.

My favorite part of the morning is after our commute, when Harry & I sit down to breakfast together.  The Momma is usually there, so she & I chat over a cup of coffee.  I love seeing her every morning.

8:00am, the work day begins.  It usually takes me about thirty minutes to fully caffeinate, check in with my team, & read emails.   I like to give my clients until 9:30am to wake up & get going, so I usually try to work on paperwork in the early morning.

11:30am, I rush out into the sunshine to meet my friend Pretty Swell for lunch.  She wraps me up in a warm hug & we laugh about motherhood over sandwiches & the usual cupcakes we always order.

12:30pm, back to the office.  ::sigh::  You know that weird post-lunch nap that you want to take?  I'm feeling it, but it's time to meet a client so I slap a smile on my face & get down to business.

5:00pm, quitting time!  I race to pick up Harrison & we start our evening commute.  It's tedious as always but I try to chat with Harry on the way home, practicing animal sounds & pointing out things.  Soon it will be dark on the ride home, which means he'll watch his DVD player.  We're usually home around 6pm, greeted at the door by a very excited pup.  My husband is usually home by then, so we load up on popsicles & beverages & head outside.

6:30pm, we head inside.  I start dinner & the boys wrestle upstairs or watch Cars.  Either way, the house is VERY loud at that point!  I start a bath, lay out jammies, & the small boy gets scrubbed clean by his daddy.  We both help dress him in jammies, then he kisses the dog goodnight & climbs into his toddler bed.  We kneel down & say prayers - this is a new part of my routine that is melting my heart on a daily basis.

7:15pm, Harrison is in bed & the oven timer is usually going off!  We serve up dinner & usually eat in front of the television.  ack, it's a terrible habit that we have!  My husband usually goes for a run with the dog & I sit down to write, answer emails, edit pictures. (or just piss around on Twitter)

10:00pm, lights out!  Night, y'all :)

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1.  What is the most surprising thing about being a mom?

I think the biggest surprise for me has been the joy I find in toddlerhood.  So many people are "infant" folks but talk about the "terrible twos" & how wretched discipline can be.  Yes, it is testing & hard, but I am truly soaking up Harrison's age right now.  He's so fun & exploring & doing something new all the time.  I love watching him become this little person that I am so, so proud of.

2.  What advice would you give new or soon-to-be moms?

Give yourself time to adjust to motherhood.  I wish I had been more gentle with myself on my expectations of how I would mother, how it would define & change me.  Give yourself time to lose the baby weight, to get back in the routine of working out & cooking.  Sometimes it's just about survival as a new mom & remember that it's not permanent.  You will get normal life back!  (we'll see how good I am at taking my own advice when we have baby #2!)

3.  What are your top three baby products?

oooohh, I love this question because I love seeing all the different answers!  For the first year, the Moby Wrap was an absolute must for having free hands with a fussy newborn.  I also loved big fluffy blankets from Target & fleece Carter's sleepers for a fall/winter baby.  I rarely dressed Harrison in an outfit - I preferred to just keep him in cozy sleepers all day until he was about 6 months old.

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Thanks for sharing your day with us Beth Anne!

bustin' out some oldies {seven links}

Recently (ish.  again, I'm behind), both Erin and Meredith tagged me to participate in the seven links meme.  I think the idea is pretty fun, but man, going back through all my two+ years of archives is kind of daunting.  Well, sorta.  I didn't really dive full on into blogging until I was pregnant with Ryann.  And some of these prompts don't really warrant themselves to some of my earlier posts.  To give you a better idea of what I'm talking about...

What this is about:
To unite bloggers (from all sectors) in a joint endeavor to share lessons learned and create a bank of long but not forgotten blog posts that deserve to see the light of day again.

Rules:
1) Blogger is nominated to take part
2) Blogger publishes his/her 7 links on his/her blog – 1 link for each category.
- Your most beautiful post
– Your most popular post
– Your most controversial post
– Your most helpful post
– A post whose success surprised you
– A post you feel didn’t get the attention it deserved
– The post that you are most proud of
3) Blogger nominates up to 5 more bloggers to take part.
4) These bloggers publish their 7 links and nominate another 5 more bloggers
5) And so it goes on!
6) The site Trip Base be sharing the best posts from participating bloggers on their blog and everyday on Facebook and Twitter at #My7Links

Honestly, I really struggled to pinpoint posts that best filled all of these categories.  But I decided to give it a go anyway.  And um, change the two categories that I really couldn't come up with anything.  I decided I could do that.  So there.

Most Beautiful Post

Surprisingly this category was a tough one for me.  I think I'm pretty honest around here most of the time.  I tell it like it is, I don't paint pictures of puppy dogs and rainbows, I give the facts and the info.  Yes, I gush over Ryann in lots of monthly posts.  I've written some sappy mother's day and father's day posts.  I almost selected this post, that I wrote shortly before Ryann was born.  But the post that almost brings me to tears every time I read it, is the letter I wrote to Ryann on her birthday.  The words aren't extraordinary, but they were from the heart.  And that letter combined with the reminder of the first year spent with my baby floods me with emotion.

Most Popular Post

Well, I think most popular post is an interesting one to figure out.  Based on page view statistics, the most popular posts are the 'a day in the life' posts from Dusty, Emily, Amy, Jami and Shawna.  But those girlies have tons of followers, so of course when they posted a link to their day it was clicked on several times.  The most popular post that I 'wrote' (I used that term loosely, because I barely wrote anything), gets it's hits from google.  I posted a picture of a jewelry organizer that I wanted to make (for the record I did make something similar, but I used it for Ryann's hair bows that she never wears, can't believe I haven't shared that yet!).  I decided all those posts didn't count because they weren't really my own content, so the most popular post is actually a tie between Ryann's party post and my weight loss progress photos.

 

Most Controversial Post

This is one of the categories that I struggled with just a bit.  Personally, I don't think anything I write is all that controversial, and there hasn't been any crazy outbreak of harsh or concerned comments on any posts.  Something that could be sort of controversial to some people, I guess, is sleep training.  I detailed what we went through training Ryann to put herself to sleep and stay asleep in a few different posts, here, here and here.

  
Most Helpful Post
Obviously all of the posts I write are incredibly helpful, right?  :)  But in all honesty, most of the posts that I write that aren't about family happenings, are meant to be helpful in one way or another, informational or motivational.  I'd say the baby gear list that I just put together could be helpful to new or soon-to-be mamas, as are all of the 'day in the life' posts.


 

Surprise Success... Or Just Random Posts I Want To Link To
Ok this is the category that really, I've got nothing.  The posts that I thought would be popular, were.  The posts where I am more or less documenting things or dumping photos for our family?  They don't get a ton of comments.  But that's ok.  I'm still happy those posts are on the blog.  Because this blog is for my family.  So I decided to like to a few really old posts just for fun.  Such as what our house looked like right before we moved in.  For a few laughs, read you know you're pregnant when.  If you want to know how we stenciled Ryann's wall, go here.

 
Post that Deserved More Attention
Again, same as above.  I'm not surprised by which posts don't get a lot of comments.  I do remember being a little sad that more people didn't comment on how cute Ryann was in this post, but um, it wasn't important.  I just thought she was so dang cute!  So ummm, how about I'll just link up to the posts where I answered random reader questions (some relatively personal, some more informational).  Obviously I deserve more attention.  :)  You can check them out here and here. 

Post I'm Most Proud Of 
There are several posts that I am proud of recently, and they all deal with my weight loss/fitness transformation.  I'm incredibly proud of my first 5k.  Extremely proud of my 10k.  Proud of the weight loss progress I've made.  But honestly, right now, I am most proud of the very first post I did about my weight loss journey.  If I hadn't put myself out there, I absolutely would not be where I am today.  It took a lot of guts for me to post that, and I appreciate all of your support so much.

Wow.  Do you like that when I'm supposed to be linking to seven posts, I managed to throw in 28 links?  I'd love for the following ladies to jump on this seven posts bandwagon.  I suppose if you don't I won't kill you, I won't be surprised if you choose not to.

a good life.

Jack and the Kumquat  

from the Nato's

Me and Mine (or miller fam, whatever you want to go with :o)

Collected Blog

Styleberry Blog

Oops.  That was six wasn't it?  Oh well.  I'm not particularly good at following rules lately.

dear annoying gym goers

Are you really working that hard loud breathing elliptical man?  Maybe you are, but I think your breathing is a wee bit excessive.
Seriously.  Every Sunday morning there is a guy on the elliptical.  He blows out EXTREMELY LOUDLY every third stride.  It kind of stresses me out.  I've considered going to the gym at a different time just to avoid him, but that is when it fits best in my schedule.  Boo.

Whoa, loud breathing elliptical man turned extra loud screaming while weight lifting man, I'm worried that you're over doing it.
No kidding.  Same guy.  One morning he was lifting weights and I'm pretty sure everyone in the gym was concerned with whether or not they should be spotting him.  I would have sworn he was picking up a truck or something.  Even the guy sitting at his office desk was leaned incredibly far back in his chair trying to figure out who the noise was coming from.

Excuse me, sir, yes you there on the treadmill directly behind me (even though there are a million other treadmills open, sorry another pet peeve).  Maybe you could take your phone call after your workout?
So I know sometimes people have to get in touch with you, but I was on the elliptical (which I hate, but my legs would probably shatter into a bajillion pieces if I ran everyday) and the guy behind me got a phone call.  It sounded like he was probably catching up with a friend or something, there was laughter and such.  Oh yeah, and the entire 25 minute conversation was in a language I couldn't even make out.  I tried to just tune it out as noise, but it didn't work.

Holy cow ladies on the elliptical across the gym from me!  I can't believe you spent $25 on your kiddos concert t-shirt either.  Also, thanks for sharing with me (and half the gym) your plans for the next month.
When working out can be a social event, it sometimes adds a bit of motivation.  I totally get that.  But some of us can't put in our headphones because our kid is in the child center and we have to hear the intercom.  So I can't tune out your entire life story as you try to yell it to your friend.  Last week there were two women attempting to talk over each other and every noise around them about what they had been up to and what they planned to do for the next oh I don't know, forever.  I wanted so badly to just zone out and run, but they were SO LOUD.

Really, I try to ignore people at the gym, not worry about anyone else and just focus on myself.  I try not to judge what other people are doing or compare myself to them, because I have NO CLUE what their story is.  But there have just be some people driving me nuts lately!  Sorry, rant over.

If you belong to a gym, what is your pet peeve with other gym goers?

Switching gears here... Yesterday I had 6 miles on my training schedule.  Wait, oops, 7.  Except I didn't look at my calendar until after I got home.  Whatever, I still have plenty of time before the race that I haven't even signed up for yet.  Mental note, do that.  ANYWAY...

I've been tired of doing odd loops around our neighborhood.  Weaving up and down streets for even four miles can get annoying, so thanks to some friends I located a trail.  When trying to look up where to park, I actually came across another trail even closer to our house, so yesterday morning I hopped in my car and headed out for my run.  It felt really weird to drive somewhere to run, but not having to battle intersections and crappy sidewalks is a HUGE plus.

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I was a little nervous because I wasn't 100% sure where the trail went, but it claimed to be almost 17 miles long (as did the other trails, strange that they are the same length), so I figured I'd just hop on, run a little over 3 miles in one direction and turn around.  Everything started off just fine, the weather was great, I was feeling way better than I had in a couple weeks (funny what really eating healthy for a few days will do for you) and I was excited to get in six miles.  I had set my phone app to give a voice alert after every mile, so I didn't have to look at my phone.  It seemed like it took forever to hear the first mile, and when I did eventually check my screen out of curiousity it said I had only gone 1.25 miles.  Lame.  Boo.

Shortly after that there were a couple forks in the trail.  For the life of me I could not figure out how to stay on the actual trail.  I kept ending up on roads that led me up to the street.  I know for small parts of the trail you do go up on to the sidewalks, but there was no where to keep going that I could find.  I check my mileage again.  1.25.  WAIT WHAT???  Crap.  I'm assuming there was too much tree coverage and I lost GPS.  The trail had mile markers, so I could try to go off those, except, oh yeah, I couldn't find the stupid trail!  I got on the trail around the five mile mark and had passed mile marker 4, so I knew I still had plenty of room in the other direction to keep going.  If I could stay on the trail of course :).

I decided to give it a shot, turned around and kept on running.  Using my timer between two mile markers, I'm guessing I was averaging just under a 10 minute mile, so I decided I would just run for an hour and call it good.  It was a little sad to pass my car and know I still had 20 minutes to go, but the trail was much easier to figure out in that direction.  I should have started that way in the first place!  I guess I know for next time.

Besides the whole being lost and confused part, the run felt great.  I honestly got a second wind probably just after the fifth mile, and I felt like I could have easily ran another one or two.  Hopefully I'm feeling that good next week!

Did you have any great workouts this week?

week in iphone pics

This week flew by.  I suppose that is a good thing, it means we didn't spend too much time bored!  On the other hand, I'm still feeling overwhelmed/flustered/behind/etc.  Oh well.  I'll figure it out eventually.

MONDAY

Grandma 'Nita came over for a little visit.  Ryann test drove her new car... well sorta anyway.  Grandma of course brought Ryann a little game.  She can't really play it yet, but loved the mat with all the letters.  Once we were back home, we were in need of groceries.  This time we hit up wal-mart because I was on the hunt for La Tortilla Factory tortillas.  Ryann is very in to stacking blocks, especially on things (this time my knee).  The tongue obviously helps her concentrate.

TUESDAY

Another pre-gym photo sesh.  After the gym we hit up the park.  I'm pretty sure we went down the slide a kajillion times.  We have a problem, Ryann loves ketchup so much now, that she doesn't really want to eat anything else, and will literally lick her plate clean of ketchup.  But if we don't give her any?  She won't eat anything at all.  Just some snack time cuteness.  And they guy at the checkout in Target gave her a sticker.  She was proud.

WEDNESDAY

After the gym we hit up Monkey Bizness with a couple of our favorite little guys.  This time we tried out the other location, SO much better.  Ryann got a little present in the mail, when we showed her the monkey, in a soft completely utterly amazed voice she said "buckles" and couldn't stop smiling.  There seriously must have been rays of light from Heaven shining down on this thing the way she was looking at it :o).  Lucky us Daddy came home from work early, so we hit up the park family style.  After dinner Ry enjoyed a night little bike ride, before giving me some ornery eyes of course.

THURSDAY

Big lunch box, little girl.  But she loves that thing, and looks like such a big kid when I drop her off at mother's day out.  While she was gone I started packing up some of her summer and too small clothes.  I thought my pile was looking pretty good, but her closet was still, um, FULL.  Hi my name is Ashley.  My mom and I (and Grandma 'Nita!) are addicted to buying little girl clothes.  When I brought Ry home it was snack time.  I taught her how to dip apple slices in sunflower butter.  She was impressed to say the least.

FRIDAY

Picture overload, whoops :o).  Ryann was happy because she was wearing really eccentric pants.  HA.  She LOVES her new itty bitty camelbak.  I do too, it is adorable.  And I obviously take too many photos of my kid eating, but honestly?  That is when she is sitting still!  For afternoon snack I added some cheerios and a few mini chocolate chips to her yogurt.  This is the disaster that occurred while I made some mini chocolate muffins (stay tuned for those ones, can you guess what weird ingredient is hiding under the chocolate?).  And Ry decided it was cool to put owl stickers on her bum.

SATURDAY

My little girl is such a ham.  And she really is becoming a little girly girl.  She actually enjoyed trying on shoes at Target (be still my heart).  After nap we hit up Whole Foods, where I got some evil eye looks, apparently she is sick of me taking her picture?  And, well, I don't know what to say about that last one.  My child is definitely unique :o).  She just sat there like that for a while.

Linking up with Amy!

overnight meatball and pasta casserole

Just go ahead and mark this one as quite possibly the easiest (and incredibly delicious!) casserole dish you will ever make.  I won't pretend its healthy.  But man.  Easy and oh so good.

please excuse my completely unappetizing photo of the dish

My mom and I put this dish together, as well as this make ahead chicken casserole, for the 4th of July.  This one 100% tastier than the chicken dish that took much much longer to prepare.  She put it together again this past weekend, along with this chicken dish.  The meatball casserole was still the clear favorite (although I actually liked the chicken dish too this time).  If you don't want to spend a lot of time in the kitchen this dish is a great go-to.  Seriously, you throw everything into the dish FROZEN.

Overnight Meatball and Pasta Casserole
from Pillsbury's Casseroles & One-Dish Meals, October 1999

Ingredients

• 1 (14-ounce) jar spaghetti sauce
• 1 (10 3/4 ounce) can condensed Cheddar cheese soup
• 1 cup water
• 6 1/2 ounces (3 cups) uncooked mini lasagna noodles (mafalda)
• 1 cup frozen bell pepper and onion stir-fry, larger pieces cut up
• 1 (16 ounce) package frozen precooked Italian meatballs
• 6 ounces (1 1/2 cups) shredded mozzarella cheese
• 2 tablespoons chopped fresh parsley

Directions

1. In an ungreased 12x8-inch (2-quart) baking dish, combine spaghetti sauce, soup and water; mix well.  Stir in uncooked noodles, and bell pepper and onion stir-fry.  Add meatballs; turn to coat with sauce.  (Noodles should be completely covered with sauce.)  Cover tightly with foil; refrigerate at least 8 hours or overnight.
2. When ready to bake, heat oven to 350 degrees.  Bake covered for 45 minutes.
3. Uncover baking dish; sprinkle with cheese and parsley.  Bake uncovered for an additional 5 to 10 minutes or until casserole is bubbly and cheese is melted.

Enjoy!

baby gear guide

A while back I was asked to tell my favorite baby items, or what I would put on a registry.  It took me a while, and this probably isn't important to whoever asked anymore, but I've put together a pretty extensive list of baby gear we've liked (and I'll fill you in on what we didn't like too!).  I've done somewhat similar posts here and here, but nothing quite as complete as this list.  Let me know if you have any questions! 

Apparently I decided this was also a good time to dig up some old pictures.  Enjoy :o).

• BeBand Maternity Tank  Everyone told me I would absolutely want to have a BeBand (everyone being people on the internet, I'm the first of my close friends to have a baby).  But I absolutely hated the thing.  It was always rolling up, and never successfully held on my too tight prepregnancy jeans or my too big maternity pants.  The tank however, was great for me.  It didn't really hold up regular jeans, but worked really well for keeping up maternity jeans that were still too big.
• Gap Full Panel Jeans  I didn't think I would like full panel jeans, but when I really had a belly most other pants felt like they were being pushed down.  I enjoyed knowing that my bum crack wouldn't be hanging out with these.  I went with Gap jeans because I generally wore them prepregnancy as well.
• Old Navy Maternity Boot Cut Cords  We couldn't wear jeans or sweats to work (boo, those were my favorites) but these were pretty comfy, and the only non full panel pants that I liked.
• Non Maternity Empire Waist Tops and Dresses  I felt a lot of the affordable maternity fashions left a lot to be desired.  I had the best luck browsing stores for their empire waist tops and dresses.  I got some great ones at Francescas that I was able to wear post pregnancy as well.
• Snoogle  I am a hardcore stomach sleeper, and when that wasn't an option anymore I was miserable.  No matter how hard I tried to stay on my side, I always wound up flat on my back and just didn't sleep great.  The snoogle helped me comfortably sleep on my side.  I will say it was incredibly hard to deal with towards the end of my pregnancy, but at that point my belly was big enough to keep me propped up anyway :o).
• What to Expect When You're Expecting  Surely almost every pregnant woman has heard of this book, but I appreciated the fact that when I got carpel tunnel and my vision started to blur the book told me I wasn't crazy, it was indeed a symptom of pregnancy.
• Belly Laughs  A short, blunt and hilarious book that can fill you in on some of the ups and downs of pregnancy.  Very quick to read and I loved it.
• Saltine Crackers  I was nauseous 24/7 for what seemed like FOREVER.  Saltines were the only thing I could keep down for a while, so I never left home without them.
• Prescription Prenatal Vitamins  Shortly before I became pregnant I started taking Women's One A Day Prenatals.  About two weeks after I found out I was expecting my stomach couldn't handle them.  They never stayed down.  Whatever prenatals my doctor wrote a prescription for did the trick.  Also taking them before bed and falling asleep as quickly as possible helped too!  Just something I suggest talking to your doctor about.

Errr... I didn't really have much of my bag packed before we made our unexpected trip to the hospital and ended up coming home with a baby, so I didn't really pack what I wanted.  But here is what I brought:

• Make-up  I may have been giving birth, but come on, there were cameras around, make-up was necessary.
• Toilietires
• Brush
• Blow Dryer
• Comfy Athletic Shorts (2 pairs)
• Target Nursing Tank
• Cheap Underwear  I bought a pack of cheapies at Target a size larger than I usually wear, but they weren't the most comfortable, and honestly they didn't get ruined.  So I would just bring some comfy ones.  I personally HATED the mesh underwear things they had at the hospital.
• Always Pads (but I used the giant hospital ones while I was there)
• Flip Flops (I'm not a slipper girl, and I never walked out of my room until we left)
• Pillow (in a not white pillowcase, didn't want the hospital to confuse them with theirs!)
• Laptop
• Camera
• Camera Cord
• two newborn size outfits
• a 0-3 sized outfit

Next time I will remember to bring the charger for my video camera (whoops).  I also plan to look for a fun pillow case that is on clearance or at Home Goods or TJMaxx or something.  The only non white pillow case my husband could find that day in our house, was an old black one.  Which is now the background for several of our pictures from our hospital stay.  Also, Ryann was TINY.  The day we left the hospital she weighed less than six pounds, so none of the outfits I brought fit her (nor did the giant infant hospital gown that fit babies up to 16 pounds).  Even if my baby is full term I will bring at least one preemie outfit next time, just in case.  Also, I ALWAYS forgot to order food at the meal times, so I plan to pack some hearty snacks the next time.


Although I came to the conclusion that all you really need for a newborn is somewhere to sleep, diapers, a carseat, and well, boobs, here are some items we liked right off the bat.

• Pampers Swaddlers  I worked in childcare for three years before Ryann was born.  Pampers were always my favorite, and the swaddlers were so soft.  Now we use cruisers, and I am considering cloth diapers for the next kiddo, but I am a Pampers advocate.
• Huggies Natural Care Wipes  Again, childcare experience decided on our wipes brand.  I also liked the Kirkland Wipes, but I think those come from Costco and we don't shop there.  Pampers wipes always seemed to thin or smelled funny.
• Sleeper Gowns  Imagine this:  It is 3:45AM, this is the third time you've gotten up to feed and change your newborn.  You are beyond exhausted and a little bit delirious.  Do you want to fumble with 42 bajillion snaps?  No, I didn't think so.  Yes, there are zippered sleepers, but those didn't work for us when Ry was a newborn.  Save yourself some headaches, get some sleeper gowns.
• Halo Sleepsack Swaddle  Neither Chris or I were great swaddlers at first.  Ryann would bust her little arms out in a matter of minutes.  But this little puppy did the trick, and made for an easier transition to the sleep sack.
• Stretchy Blankets  When I did swaddle Ryann in a blanket, I preferred some with a little stretch.  Target had some great ones at the time, and Koala Baby Thermal blankets also worked well.
• Arms Reach CoSleeper Mini  Our master bedroom is just large enough to accommodate our king size bed and two small nightstands.  This little guy fit next to the bed perfectly, and Ryann slept there comfortably for almost four months before we moved her to her crib.
• Soothies and Avent Pacifiers  Ryann wasn't much of a pacifier girl, and completely gave them the cold shoulder around 3 months, but those were her two favorites (honestly we didn't really try any others until she started refusing those, so I don't think they are miracle workers or anything!)
• Cotton Hats  It was still a wee bit chilly when Ryann was born, so we kept a soft hat on her the majority of the time the first couple months.
• Burp Cloths  Ryann was a spitty baby.  A really spitty baby.  We had probably two dozen burp cloths (that my mom made for me) and had to do laundry at least every five days just for those.  Now they work great as booger rags, so her nose doesn't get all red and irritated from being wiped so many times.
• Bright Starts Automatic Bouncer  This seat was great for quite a while.  It was a comfy place for Ry to sit and watch me while she was awake, and the gentle bouncing action did wonders for keeping her asleep when all she wanted was to be rocked.
• Baby Activity Logger  I'm incredibly OCD/Type A about some things, and Ryann schedule was definitely one of them (still is a bit).  I have this app on my phone and LOVED it for keeping tabs on how much she was eating and sleeping, as well as wet and dirty diapers.  When the pedi asked me questions I had answers right on my phone.

• Chicco Cortina Keyfit 30 Travel System  I LOVED our infant carrier.  I have nothing to complain about with that at all (other than the fact that it doesn't snap on to as many things as a Graco, but it wasn't a problem for me).  If I got to do it all over again I would just buy the infant seat, and get a snap and go stroller.  We still use the stroller from the travel system, but I think it leaves a little bit to be desired.  It has held up well and is pretty easy to use.  I would call it a fantastic mall stroller (nice basket underneath, two cup holders up top), but it isn't the most compact or sleek thing out there.  I'm still not sure what stroller I would rather have, which is why we haven't bought a different one.
• Britax Boulevard 70 CS  Love love LOVE this carseat.  It sits fairly upright, has a steel frame, seems like it would be pretty comfortable to ride in, and the little velcro squares that keep the straps out of the way when you are trying to wrangle a toddler in there?  Awesome.  The hubby tells me it is easy to install as well.  He has a Boulevard 70 (without the click and safe technology) in his car and likes it as well.  My mom has a Graco MyRide 65 in her car and I HATE it.  It is more reclined than the Britax and doesn't install as easily.
• Safety 1st Car Mirror  Ry is hopefully going to be rear facing until she is two (she is just now starting to seem a little cramped back there).  Being able to see what she is doing (or know when I need to sing loudly and horribly to keep her awake!) is a huge help.  Plus she is able to see me a bit too.
• Summer Infant Slim & Secure Handheld Color Video Monitor  I think this, by far, would be the item both Chris and I would most recommend.  Having a video monitor has been really great for us, especially when we decided to sleep train.  I HIGHLY recommend a video monitor, and this one has worked great for us.
• Organic Cotton Baby Wrap  I was interested in a moby style wrap, and saw these cute ones on etsy (by lovelyduds).  The wrap is well made and seems like it could work great, but it wasn't for me.  I hated dealing with all that fabric, and wasn't very good at getting it on all by myself.  I did wear it when Ry and I went to a bridal show with my bestie, and it was very comfortable and I got TONS of compliments on how cute it was.
• Becco Gemini Baby Carrier  Since the moby style wrap seemed a bit much for me, I liked the idea of a more structured carrier.  I've never been a huge baby wearer, but this one worked pretty well the times I strapped it on.  To tell you the truth, the reason I didn't go with an Ergo carrier, was because at the time I didn't like the fabric options (terrible reason, I know), but now that Ergo has teamed up with Petunia Pickle Bottom to make some beautiful carriers, I might be interested in trying one of those the next time around.  I've found the carrier extremely helpful in the airport, when you can strap on your babe and have your hands free to do other things.
• Snuggle Nest  With our small bedroom we considered cosleeping, but during a trial run Chris woke up inside the snuggle nest, so we decided against it.  I did use it a couple times when we traveled without Chris, and we also had it in the cosleeper for the first few weeks, when she just seemed way too small to sleep in an open bed.
• Graco Pack 'n Play  We had our pack 'n play set up in the family room when Ryann was a newborn, with the infant bassinet on top for naps.  That was really nice.  Once she became mobile it was set up in our living room, so if I needed to get stuff done or take a shower she had a safe place to play.
• Pack 'n Play Sheets  The pack 'n play mattress isn't the most comfortable thing, so we put on both a quilted sheet and a soft fuzzy sheet.  I know they were by Carter's and Koala Baby, but I don't know exactly which ones.
• Travel Swing  I agonized forever over which swing to purchase before Ryann was born, and could never find one I felt great about getting.  Then she went through the phase where she wouldn't nap AT ALL unless she was being held and swayed.  So one afternoon out of desperation Chris went out and bought the cheapest travel swing he could find at Target.  It wasn't fancy, but it did the trick.  The only thing that sucked was the batteries were always dying.  I liked that it was small, and easy to move around the house.  Plus if she hadn't liked it we didn't waste a ton of money on a big fancy swing.
• Boppy Pillow  Ultimately nursing didn't work out for me with Ryann, and even when I was trying to, the boppy never seemed to be much help.  But it was great for propping my spitty baby up after feedings, and keeping her in one place on the playmat.
• Bumbo  We only used our bumbo a handful of times.  Ryann didn't seem to mind it, until we would take her out of it.  Then she would always cry a hard terrible cry.  I'm not sure what caused that, but I didn't like it, so we didn't use it.
• Bundle Me Lite  This was perfect in the spring when Ry was a newborn.  It kept her cozy in the carseat without using blankets, jackets, or other bulky items.  I liked this product a LOT.
• JJ Cole Carseat Cover  This cover was great in the winter months.  Babies and toddlers should not wear coats while strapped into their carseat, so this allowed me to get her all strapped in and just slip the cover over the top, without interfering with any of the carseat straps.  Another product I would highly recommend.
• Coach Diaper Bag  My mom came across a diaper bag when she was at the Coach outlet, and bought it for me.  It has done a decent job.  Good sized.  Stands fairly well on its own.  Has lots of pockets.  But I don't LOVE it.  Waiting for the next wee one to try out a different one.
• Regalo Baby Gates  These ones are fairly sturdy (unless your husband fails to open the gate door and barrels through it on accident) and I love the little walk through door.  We got the ones that expand to fit a variety of opening sizes.

• Dr. Browns Bottles  We started off with some cheap Gerber bottles because at first I planned on nursing, so we hadn't really bought any.  Ry seemed pretty gassy.  Once we switched to Dr. Browns bottles a lot of those issues seem to get resolved.  They have a ton of parts, but they were also the ones recommended by our pedi.  I'm not sure how we ended up with the wide neck version, but it was definitely easier to not spill when putting the formula powder in :o).
• Munchkin Formula Dispenser  This is great for taking formula on the go.  Fill your bottles with water, and premeasure your formula into this little guy.  Also great for premeasuring formula for middle of the night feedings!!
• Healthy Care Booster  We started off with a big Fisher Price High Chair.  It was bulky, in the way, and Ryann never seemed to like it.  I liked that it matched my decor, but what are you going to do.  We grabbed this booster at Target and love it.  It fits on one of our dining room chairs and is easy to take with us if we need to.
• Playtex Insulated Straw Cups  Ugh.  Sippy cups.  Ryann would never pick up and tip a sippy, so we moved on to straw cups.  First we tried the Munchkin brand, I couldn't even drink out of the stupid things.  We mostly use these playtex cups, but they tend to randomly start spewing milk everywhere.  Not cool.  We've also used the Nuby straw cups, but water and milk can sit in the top of the straw, which can make a big mess of its own.  I have yet to find a straw cup I like, but a kid's Camelbak is next on my list.  That will be great for water, not sure what to use for milk...
• Gerber Soft Bite Infant Spoons by Nuk  These are what we used when we first started doing solids.  The spoon was flat enough that she could easily get the food off, but not so flat that nothing would stay on.
• Take & Toss Infant Spoons  At first these were too 'deep', Ryann couldn't get the food off of them.  But now that she is learning to use a spoon herself they have been great.  Nice and light.  Plus if we leave them somewhere I don't feel bad since they are super cheap.
• Gerber Forks by Nuk  Ryann has had a lot more success with a fork than a spoon, and these ones are great.  Easy for her to hold, not too big, not too small.
• Oxo Tot Plate  Thanks to a rubber bottom this plate stays in place while Ryann is chasing food around it with her fork.  I haven't found a divided plate I love yet (they have to be pretty narrow to fit on the tray of her booster) but I didn't realize there was a divided Oxo Tot Plate.  Might have to give that one a try.
• Tiny Diner Placemat  This placemat is wonderful for restaurants.  Another product that I would highly recommend.
• Zoli Sumo Snack Stack  I ordered this after reading Shawna's review of the product.  Love it.  When I have another babe I'll be getting the smaller on the go feeder as well.
• Inch Bug Orbit Labels  Another product I found via Shawna (she really is my go to lady for baby product info).  Dishwasher safe and super cute.
• Bibs  This is one item that I don't really have any great suggestions.  Ryann hasn't worn bibs a lot, and I haven't really liked the ones we've tried.  The ones that are more like a shirt are nice because she can't pull those off.  Usually we end up just using a cotton one (meant more for drool but oh well).

• Bath Sponge  We actually got ours in a gift set with this tub.  We never liked the tub, but the froggy cushion was great for sponge baths on the counter.
• Bathroom Sink  The cheapest easiest tub we had for Ry, was our bathroom sink.  It was the perfect size when she was an infant.  We lined it with towels so it was comfy, and it was comfy for us because she was nice and high off the ground.  There are some other tubs I wouldn't mind trying, but at the end of the day the sink did the trick.
• Non Slip Tub Mat  We thought about getting the Munchkin Inflatable Duck Tub when Ry was ready to transition out of the infant tub, but I didn't want to deal with storing it.  So we tried a bath with just a non slip tub mat.  Worked like a charm.
• Aveeno Baby Calming Comfort Bath  Not really sure if it was calming for Ry, but I loved the scent.  I've heard some iffy things about Johnson and Johnson products, and one of the moms of a kiddo I had in class who is a dermatologist (sorry for the run on sentence) used Aveeno Baby products.  So that is what we stuck with.
• Washcloths  Try and avoid the itty bitty cutesy washcloths with embroidered designs.  The embroidery can hurt a babes delicate skin, and you can get a nice big cheap pack of colorful washcloths that will do the same thing.
• Pottery Barn Bath Wraps  We've gone through several different towels, and these have by far been our favorite.  Again, avoid embroidered designs.  We had a couple towels with things on them, and if we weren't thinking about it, drying her off with that section of towel would leave roughed up skin.

I'm not going to do a full nursery list right now, because hopefully soon I will make myself actually 'finish' Ryann's room.  Then it can have a post of its own.  But here are some nursery essentials in my opinion.

• Pottery Barn Chamois Sheets  I swear Ryann started sleeping better when we put these on her crib.  I wouldn't mind snuggling up in those.
• Serta Contour Changing Pad  This just happened to be the one we bought, we wanted a pad to set on top of the dresser.
• Boppy Changing Pad Cover  Again, nothing crazy special about this one.  But I suggest having a MINIMUM of two covers.  Three or four would be preferable, depending on how often you do laundry/how many times your kiddo explodes or spits up on the cover.
• Breathable Bumpers  With no bumpers at all, Ryann got an arm or a leg stuck in the rails daily.  Obviously when she was younger I wanted to be as safe as possible, so we went the breathable bumper route.  They worked great.  Now we put the regular bumpers back in because she loves to cuddle with them.
• Diaper Genie Elite  This thing can hold a big ol' pile of diapers.  But if you leave poopy diapers in there for more than a day, your room will smell.  So we end up sticking the poopy ones in a grocery bag and taking them straight to the trash outside.  If you really want one, great.  If you don't mind taking out your trash daily, just get a regular can that fits the space.
• Loud Fan  We opted out of a white noise machine per say, and Chris just headed to Target and found the loudest littlest fan he could find (that was of course silver, it had to 'go' :o).  We sleep with a fan on in our room, so it made for the easiest transition when we moved Ry into her own room.  Plus if we were ever all sleeping in the same room, Chris and I didn't have to listen to ocean waves or nature sounds all night long.
• Black Out Shades  However you make it happen (there may or may not have been a fleece blanket hanging over the window for more than a year), keep the room DARK during sleep times.  I don't know if it really helps 100%, but I like to have as few options as possible for reasons a short nap or an early wake-up happened. 

People always told me not to buy too much newborn stuff.  They never wear it that long.  Yadda yadda yadda... so we bought maybe two things in the newborn size.  And then Ry was born, and she was TINY.  We ended up having to purchase some 'under 7 pounds' clothing from Gymboree and BabyGap (preemie stuff was a little too small pretty quickly).  We kept putting off buying newborn items because we thought surely she would grow quickly.  She did, but wore her newborn clothes until she was 8 weeks old.  Moral of the story?  Every baby is different.  You'll just have to wait and see.  The size we went through the quickest was 3-6 months, by 6 months she had reached the 50th percentile in height and weight, and has stayed there since.

• Trumpette Socks and Old Navy Socks  The trumpette ones were super cute, and both of these were the only ones that stayed on her little feet.
• Carter's Sleep & Play Pajamas  In general Carter's clothes have always fit Ryann the best, not sure why.  But especially for the first couple months she lived in her sleepers during the day.  I really loved the ones with the fold over mitts for the hands, because she scratched her face all the time, and those little individual hand mitts would NEVER stay on.
• Pedipeds  We keep trying to buy cute shoes from Target and Old Navy, but always end up back in the Pedipeds.  Nothing else stays on or fits as well.

• Infantino Square Twist and Fold Playmat  Our playmat saw tons of use.  Nothing fancy about this one, but it definitely did the trick.
• Fisher Price Crawl Along Snail  Seriously one of Ryann's absolute favorite toys in the first few months.  It could get her attention like nothing else!
• Stacking Cups  Quite possibly the best $4 we've spent on toys.  These cups can do and be lots of things, and have kept Ry entertained for long periods of time.
• Jumperoo  Yes.  It is an eyesore.  BUT it did wonders for keeping the kiddo happy sometimes.  She didn't always love it, but I was thankful we had it.
• LeapFrog Learn & Groove Musical Table  I believe we got this when Ry was about nine months old, and she still occasionally enjoys playing with it at 17 months old.  It's a keeper.
• Little People Toys  These are Ry's 'buddies'.  If we are going out and about she will usually request to take a buddy with.  They are awkwardly part of our family now.  "Where is Hanna?  Uh oh!  Did you drop Christin?  Don't forget Juan!"  Yes, they all have names :o).

And there you have it.  I want to make it clear that I am not saying by any means that I think these products are the absolute best of whatever item.  But we have used all of these items.  Another great baby list to check out, is of course Shawna's.  If you can't tell, I was inspired by her organization for my own.  Her list is quite extensive as well, and she covers some areas that I didn't, or don't have experience with.

Just like Shawna I would highly recommend using Amazon's registry system.  Nearly every item I've talked about above can be found on Amazon, and if I found something that wasn't on Amazon, I could add it to my registry anyway.  If you think you'll be using Amazon a lot, and want to get items quickly, I suggest looking into their Prime account.

Again if you think I left out something you want to know about, or have any other questions just ask in the comment section!  Or if YOU know of an amazing product that I didn't list that you think everyone should know about, please comment with that as well.